# Are you not loved at home?

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- Published: 2026-10-12T10:16:18+00:00
- Author: Olamide

Social commentator  Solomon Buchi has strongly criticized Nigerian men who engage
in negotiations with their female love interests regarding monthly stipends or upkeep
allowances.

 

Buchi’s remarks came in response to a viral video showing a woman telling a prospective
boyfriend that she requires a minimum of ₦500,000 monthly for her upkeep.

 

Reacting sharply to the video, Buchi berated men who entertain such financial discussions.
According to him, any man who engages in these negotiations displays a lack of self-
worth, suggesting they were “not loved at home.”

 

He further argued that women who treat romantic relationships as a negotiation for
financial stipends are essentially engaging in “prostitution,” warning men to steer
clear of such transactional dynamics.

 

Watch the video below…

 

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  TL;DR (AI Generated)

Social commentator Solomon Buchi strongly criticized Nigerian men who negotiate 
monthly upkeep allowances with female love interests.

His remarks followed a viral video where a woman demanded a minimum of ₦500,000 
monthly from a prospective boyfriend.

Buchi argued that men who engage in such discussions lack self-worth and that women
treating relationships as financial negotiations are engaging in prostitution.

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