61-year-old Nigerian grandma questions women who dress provocatively and expect men not to be aroused

A 61-year-old Nigerian woman, Doyinsola Ilori, has questioned the expectation that men should not be aroused when looking at women in revealing or provocative clothing.

“I do not understand how a woman will be half naked, provocatively dressed and tell me the man does not have a right to have an er€ction,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Monday, October 12, 2026.

 

“This is one of the most confusing things I have had to deal with in my life. If you can, please make it make sense to me. ADDENDUM. Kò yé mi. Ọlọ́run ń gbọ́.”